Back At It Again!

This want to date comes and goes, so I just decided to sign up for a site and have fun with it. Besides, if anything I will have blog material, and you KNOW you wouldn’t have it any other way!

Eharmony it is….(because I found a working coupon code..win!)

Interesting selection of people on this site. I have to remember that Eharmony matches you on a “deeper” level..meaning I guess you are supposed to look past someone’s pictures.

Well that doesn’t work for me, in a normal setting sure, but not online.

To bone or not to bone..that is the question.

Yup, I need to want to bone you.  Ok, not actually bone you….right away anyway, just want to.

Oh you can put money on the fact that I’m going to make someone earn that because my vajin is a wonderland and I don’t just give that away.  It’s been several months for me as it is, so I’m over the “hump”.  Although on a side note, a couple of weeks ago, I woke up one morning ready to take down the next guy that I saw.  I don’t know what came over me.  Luckily it passed because the next guy I saw was a gay neighbor and that wouldn’t have gone over very well.

I like having the option though, and you have to at least look “boneable” to me in your pictures.  So far, not many are looking appealing.

Another thing I’m finding,guys putting “being physically fit” as a quality. You have dozens of choices yet can only choose 5 to describe yourself…and you choose that as one? I’m not impressed.  Photos are a good indication of how fit you are, I get it, now describe something about yourself that actually matters. Isn’t everyone in LA fit anyway?

I’m keeping an open mind and taking it all with a grain of salt..although I wonder if someone working at eharmony is sending me matches and chuckling to themselves going “Whoa! Hope she looks at the ‘inside’ of  THAT one”.  That’s fine laugh it up, but I’m treating this like a business. Closing ’em out as I need to, communicating with those that seem attractive to me, and have some good, REAL qualities.

I’m sure there are some, that I would have met outside of a dating site and thought they were just amazing but online can be so different and you are literally receiving hundreds of “matches” daily and they all want to communicate….I just don’t have time to go through all of that! It becomes like a second job and can take hours just answering their questions!

So I’m keeping the list short.

I never go on a site to “look for love” anyway.  I go in always open to meeting new and different people and if something happens great, if not, it surely isn’t the end of the world.

So readers, are you ready to take the journey with me?  Well buckle up and get ready for one hell of a ride. This is going to be fun.

4 comments for “Back At It Again!

  1. February 6, 2011 at 12:53 pm

    Good luck with the Online venture, and even more so with eHarmony. I’ve bounced back and forth using a (currently) free online dating site. There have been success stories and many that went flat before they even had a chance to begin rolling.

    Though I’m interested to hear about the female side of this; as I’m sure it is a completely different ballgame than what I’ve experienced on my end.
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    • February 6, 2011 at 1:17 pm

      Thank you for the comment and wishing me luck. I am still going back and forth…daily. Most days I get more excited over getting together with friends than I do about the dating ritual. All I would really like? Is to get excited about a 2nd date with someone. We will see what happens. Best of luck to you as well 🙂

  2. February 7, 2011 at 10:23 pm

    This will be great to read about! And yeah– boneable matters. What’s frustrating is when someone LOOKS boneable and then you realize you actually have no chemistry. Hopefully that won’t be an issue here 😉
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    • February 7, 2011 at 10:52 pm

      You just never know…but for the first time in a long time..I’m going to actually take looks into consideration. My problem has always been going for the nice guy but no physical attraction and “hope” that would build. I’m sick of hoping that the want to sleep with them will come…eventually. Time to switch it up a bit! 😉

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