I personally feel (and this is just my opinion) men don’t allow their buds to dictate their actions as much because men from the days of them being little boys use attacks to just fuck with each other and we’ve learned to put very little value to a buddies comments. Just the truth … men don’t give real advice to each other very often and when they do … it’s often overlooked as a sarcastic response (men are horrible at communicating … but I’m sure you know that … too often our conversations turn into sarcastic one liners).

I will say this ladies … if you got a man who continually wants to introduce you to his friends and isn’t afraid to call you his girlfriend … he is REALLY into you. Men don’t take time to introduce you to all their friends when they aren’t expecting you to be around very long. One exception … and I’m just being honest here … is if he sees you as a “trophy” … then watch out because he’ll be trying to “show you off” as quickly and as frequently as possible. But in that instance you’ll notice other tell-tale signs … such as not really wanting to have intimate together time (which doesn’t include sex). If the only time you are out it’s with his friends and the only time you are alone is during sex … WATCH OUT.

I always say … there are good men out there and hopefully you’ll meet them one day … but there are just as many (maybe more) who give us all a bad name.

But I love this post … again very well thought out …

Here’s to you meeting a true MAN … *lift glass* … cheers!

And the fact that this article completely coalesces with my general life mantra… “Life is what you can live with.” If you want him to be your man, ask for it and if it works great. If you don’t want him to be your man but want to enjoy your time together do it…don’t let your girlfriends pressure you into anything. You have a right to live how you want. So yeah…top notch
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