{"id":32,"date":"2008-06-10T03:26:00","date_gmt":"2008-06-10T10:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/?p=32"},"modified":"2008-06-10T03:26:00","modified_gmt":"2008-06-10T10:26:00","slug":"the-dating-chronicles-of-a-san-diego-single-ch-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/2008\/06\/the-dating-chronicles-of-a-san-diego-single-ch-6\/","title":{"rendered":"THE DATING CHRONICLES OF A SAN DIEGO SINGLE CH. 6"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"color:#ff0000;\">THE DATING CHRONICLES OF A SAN DIEGO SINGLE.<br \/>Disclaimer:<\/p>\n<p>The following stories are TRUE, these are not an invitation to ask me out on a date\u2026. lol!<\/p>\n<p>I am in no way saying that I am the perfect date, I&#8217;m just explaining my side and offering some helpful tips for dating in general to keep it fun. \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>The names have been changed to protect the innocent. <br \/>I don&#8217;t claim to be a  dating guru but have just been out there actively dating and I believe many of my experiences are no different than yours, I just decided to write about them&#8230;yes, I think I might make this a habit\u2026<\/p>\n<p>And for clarification\u2026dating is for research..I will not give into &#8220;selling out&#8221; and you will not see any symptoms of &#8220;bitchassness&#8221;&#8230;on my part anyway.<\/p>\n<p>-Your feedback and comments are welcome&#8230;all in the name of research! lol<\/span><br \/><span style=\"color:#ff0000;\"><\/span><br \/><span style=\"color:#000099;\">Chapter 6<\/span><br \/><span style=\"color:#000099;\"><\/span><br \/>&#8220;SPRING FEVER&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>A friend of mine and I actually had a WTF moment the other day when we ran into some old flames that we hadn&#8217;t seen in forever\u2026..ON THE SAME DAY NO LESS!.. For the rest of the day, I think we both sat on my couch trying to figure out what had happened\u2026.all of these old feelings came back\u2026and all of these questions came about.<\/p>\n<p>We both had to slap the shit out of each other to bring eachother back to reality\u2026.<br \/>&#8220;NO BITCHASSNESS!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>My friend asked, &#8220;What is going on, was it a full moon recently or something?&#8221; I didn&#8217;t know what was going on but I had to find out. I called a friend and she quickly said, &#8220;Umm yeah duh, Spring Fever&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Spring Whutta?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>So she explained it to me\u2026and well I wasn&#8217;t satisfied so I Googled it. <br \/>YES\u2026It made sense!<\/p>\n<p>Have you stopped to look around you?? Have you noticed that people are coming out of the woodwork like you wouldn&#8217;t believe???<\/p>\n<p>Even you too, maybe have sent a drunken text message, emailed or called someone that you haven&#8217;t spoken to in a while? <\/p>\n<p>Ladies, A &#8220;Hey beautiful, how are you?&#8221; Oh yeah, and they usually end it with &#8220;it&#8217;s been a while&#8221; SOUND FAMILIAR? <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m telling you, All of a sudden\u2026they come sniffin&#8217; around like I&#8217;m an open can of Puppy Chow! <\/p>\n<p>IT&#8217;S THIS WEATHER!<\/p>\n<p>Check this out! This article actually explains Spring Fever\u2026.we all go through it to a certain degree\u2026.you might notice that your dating calendar is a little busier than usual right now\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Now some of you may think it&#8217;s a myth\u2026but I for one believe it\u2026<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.msplinks.com\/MDFodHRwOi8vd3d3LmFza21lbi5jb20vZGF0aW5nL2N1cnRzbWl0aF8yMDAvMjEwX2RhdGluZ19hZHZpY2UuaHRtbA==\">http:\/\/www.askmen.com\/dating\/curtsmith_200\/210_dating_advice.html<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can attribute it to whatever you&#8217;d like, warmer weather means people get out more, the smell of blossoming flowers makes you feel romantic, either way it&#8217;s affecting us.  Is it just the weather or is it more instinct though? Kind of like &#8220;mating season&#8221; where even if we never stepped outside when the warm weather set in, would we still feel the pull to go out and find a mate?<\/p>\n<p>Well folks, bottom line, it smells like love is in the air or so people think, and do with it what you will but just remember\u2026.NO BITCHASSNESS for fucks sake!<\/p>\n<p>And watch as it starts to get cold again\u2026see how many people have their &#8220;person&#8221; and go into hibernation lol!<\/p>\n<p>Have you noticed a difference in behavior in men around you?<br \/>Gentlemen, how about the ladies around you???<\/p>\n<p>Take a second and think? Maybe not to date them again but possibly just reconnect?  I have looked back and there have been a few small reconnections with my past, innocent and brief but still\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Wow, think about it\u2026deep down, we really are just animals huh?<br \/><span style=\"color:#ff0000;\"><\/span><br \/><span style=\"color:#ff0000;\"><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>THE DATING CHRONICLES OF A SAN DIEGO SINGLE.Disclaimer: The following stories are TRUE, these are not an invitation to ask me out on a date\u2026. lol! 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