Sex in my opinion is an extremely important part of a relationship\u2026if not THE most important thing. That includes GOING DOWN.<\/p>\n
In fact, it should be first date conversation: \u201cHow many brothers and sisters, do you have? Do you go down? You don\u2019t? Ok, nice meeting you.\u201d That\u2019s right\u2026.if you don\u2019t go down, that is cause for dismissal before even being hired! Why even date someone who doesn\u2019t? I sure as hell wouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
I am focusing on women in this post because my girlfriend and I had a conversation over lunch and could not believe we have actually encountered women that don\u2019t do this, or even like doing it! Also, I have found the specific words to come from the mouths of some women to be \u201cIt\u2019s gross\u201d (Disclaimer: I am not a fan of these women).<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t think I have ever met a guy who thinks it\u2019s gross\u2026. Oh wait, my gay friends.<\/p>\n
How is it gross? What are we 12? As far as I\u2019m concerned if you are an adult, it shouldn\u2019t gross you out. It\u2019s not nasty. It\u2019s hot. And if you think otherwise, you should probably get that checked out\u2026<\/p>\n
I have heard stories\u2026and it saddens me. \u201cMy girlfriend\/wife doesn\u2019t like it. She thinks it\u2019s gross.\u201d My response to a married friend of mine was \u201cand you actually MARRIED this woman?\u201d You should know well in advance if she\u2019s going to perform oral sex on you\u2026before she\u2019s even your girlfriend you should get the answer to that one. It\u2019s best to get it out of the way and ask up front\u2026why even wait to see? I mean when you buy a car, do you ask about the features AFTER you buy?<\/p>\n
I don\u2019t like selfish women. I have a problem with being friends with women like this, why? Because I feel like women have come so far in trying to be independent and having the upper hand in business and in our personal lives. You should have your business in line and in check and, your man pleased so he does not care to wander. Just cover all of your bases.<\/p>\n
Now if you are asking\u2026.Why should you do this for your man? Because it feels good to him! You want him to feel good don\u2019t you? You like receiving it don\u2019t you? But you don\u2019t like to give it? You suck\u2026.but not literally I guess. Something\u2019s wrong with you. Oh wait, you don\u2019t care if you get it either? Something\u2019s still wrong with you.<\/p>\n
I mean, tis better to give than receive right?<\/p>\n
Ladies, you should enjoy going down on your man. If anything, it should turn you on, that it turns him on. I don\u2019t know of a guy that doesn\u2019t like getting head. If he acts like doesn\u2019t like it or care for it\u2026bottom line\u2026it\u2019s because you\u2019re doing it wrong!<\/p>\n
If you aren\u2019t good at it\u2026take a class, ask a girlfriend\u2026ask your man how he likes it and then as the saying goes \u201c Practice makes Perfect\u201d The effort alone I assure you will be appreciated.<\/p>\n
One thing I can\u2019t stand is a selfish person. Don\u2019t be that guy or girl that expects to get it but not give it.
\nSex, oral included, should be fun\u2026and of course most importantly\u2026.PLEASURABLE! I know we think guys can be super simple and just intercourse alone should be good for them, but guys LOOOOVE head\u2026they just do. So just give it to them because 9 out of 10 times, he\u2019s more than happy to give it to you!<\/p>\n
I have heard of Women thinking he will lose respect for her if she gets too freaky\u2026.<\/p>\n
I read this article and paid particular attention to Myth #5 The \u201cMadonna Whore\u201d portion http:\/\/www.cosmopolitan.com\/sex-love\/dating-advice\/671330. A guy (that is not gay) is going to want you to explore that sexy, hot side of the relationship and doesn\u2019t want you to be afraid. Trust that he wants you to be sexual and freaky in bed with him.<\/p>\n
It is not wrong, gross, or otherwise. Oral sex is just as important as intercourse. Your excuses of not wanting to do it, get tiring and you don\u2019t want your man going elsewhere for it..do you?<\/p>\n
Ladies, get right on this if you aren\u2019t already\u2026or just\u2026get left.<\/p>\n
This gets me thinking of the Dr. Seuss rhyme to get it through your heads\u2026to give head to get ahead\u2026in your relationship.<\/p>\n
You may start as the skeptical \u201cSam I am\u201d but with some time and practice\u2026.
\nYou will be saying\u2026.<\/p>\n
“I do! I do like giving head. I do like it in my bed, I do like it by the shed, I do like it in my house. I do like it on the couch, I do like it with my spouse. I do like it in my car. I do like it near or far, I do like it here, or there, I do like giving head anywhere.\u2026.”<\/p>\n
Even if you think it\u2019s a \u201cjob\u201d and tedious, tiring, and gross. DO IT anyway. Keep doing it\u2026until you like it.<\/p>\n
Try it, try it in a tree, try it, try it and you will see\u2026.<\/p>\n
That\u2019s not Dr. Seuss kids\u2026.that\u2019s Dr. SeDuss. Enjoy his \u201cgreen eggs and ham\u201d just remember it\u2019s your job to make sure his \u201ceggs\u201d don\u2019t turn blue.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sex in my opinion is an extremely important part of a relationship\u2026if not THE most important thing. That includes GOING DOWN. In fact, it should be first date conversation: \u201cHow many brothers and sisters, do you have? Do you go…<\/p>\n