{"id":829,"date":"2013-07-26T13:43:43","date_gmt":"2013-07-26T20:43:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/?p=829"},"modified":"2013-07-26T13:43:43","modified_gmt":"2013-07-26T20:43:43","slug":"the-cancer-card","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/2013\/07\/the-cancer-card\/","title":{"rendered":"The Cancer Card"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So I said I would work on transitioning my blog to be a travel blog. Well, I have done some traveling but between work and school, I wasn&#8217;t focusing on getting those posts up. I just got busy. Then I got a phone call&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>A few years ago my best friend Tanisha, of 13 years was diagnosed with <a href=\"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/2010\/11\/lolo-in-lala-land\/\">Stage III breast cancer\u00a0<\/a>. After a long road of treatments and <a href=\"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/163833_1826405780183_1905675_n.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-830\" title=\"163833_1826405780183_1905675_n\" src=\"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/163833_1826405780183_1905675_n-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/163833_1826405780183_1905675_n-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/163833_1826405780183_1905675_n.jpg 540w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>surgeries, she was in remission. Now, the cancer has returned and has metastasized to her brain and other areas in her body.<\/p>\n<p>She is currently living in Fresno, and when she asked me to come and stay with her, I didn&#8217;t hesitate.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll say this, Fresno isn&#8217;t the greatest place. But she&#8217;s here, so I&#8217;ll stay here until she doesn&#8217;t need me anymore. I&#8217;m ready to battle with her just as we did a few years ago. She would do it for me.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve started a fundraiser for her because she needs help with medical expenses.<\/p>\n<p>She is an Air Force veteran and is able to get medical assistance through the Veterans Administration but they don&#8217;t cover everything. She currently has no income, and disability is taking forever to help her, even with her diagnosis.<\/p>\n<p>I know everyone says only the nicest things when people are sick, but she truly IS an angel among us. She positively impacts people&#8217;s lives and would give her last cent to help someone else. I&#8217;ve seen her do this! Her doctors and nurses go out of their way just to spend time with her, even people who don&#8217;t know her and have only heard of her flock to her just to get a glimpse of her bright light. Everyone who meets her always says she is so sweet, kind, and caring.<\/p>\n<p>I, personally have never met a more selfless person. I&#8217;ve seen friends come and go out of my life, yet she is the one friend who is a constant positive influence. She teaches me to be kind even when I don&#8217;t feel like it, to reach for my dreams, and believes in me more than any other friend, even more than my family at times. She&#8217;s more than my friend, she&#8217;s my sister and she needs to stay on this Earth to continue to spread her positive attitude and joyful spirit.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;ve done great so far with the fundraiser but we still need help. Please read her story, share it, and PLEASE donate. Help my best friend. She needs to be here, I need her here. Every little bit helps!<\/p>\n<p>The money will go to medical expenses not covered by the VA, travel expenses for medical care, food, and rent.The fundraiser ends August 7th, 2013.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.giveforward.com\/fundraiser\/knh2\/mother-tanishas-brain-cancer-fund\">https:\/\/www.giveforward.com\/fundraiser\/knh2\/mother-tanishas-brain-cancer-fund<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Thank you!<\/p>\n<p>-Lo<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>So I said I would work on transitioning my blog to be a travel blog. Well, I have done some traveling but between work and school, I wasn&#8217;t focusing on getting those posts up. I just got busy. Then I&hellip;<\/p>\n<p class=\"more-link-p\"><a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/2013\/07\/the-cancer-card\/\">Read more &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":830,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[39,38,37,34,35,36,28],"class_list":["post-829","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-los-angeles","tag-air-force","tag-breast-cancer","tag-california","tag-cancer","tag-friendship","tag-health","tag-travel"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/829","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=829"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/829\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":836,"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/829\/revisions\/836"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/830"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=829"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=829"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adventuresofasinglegirl.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=829"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}