THE DATING CHRONICLES OF A SAN DIEGO SINGLE.
Disclaimer:
The following stories are TRUE, these are not an invitation to ask me out on a date…. lol!
I am in no way saying that I am the perfect date, I’m just explaining my side and offering some helpful tips for dating in general to keep it fun. 😉
The names have been changed to protect the innocent.
I don’t claim to be a dating guru but have just been out there actively dating and I believe many of my experiences are no different than yours, I just decided to write about them…yes, I think I might make this a habit…
And for clarification…dating is for research..I will not give into “selling out” and you will not see any symptoms of “bitchassness”…on my part anyway.
-Your feedback and comments are welcome…all in the name of research! lol
Chapter 6
“SPRING FEVER”
A friend of mine and I actually had a WTF moment the other day when we ran into some old flames that we hadn’t seen in forever…..ON THE SAME DAY NO LESS!.. For the rest of the day, I think we both sat on my couch trying to figure out what had happened….all of these old feelings came back…and all of these questions came about.
We both had to slap the shit out of each other to bring eachother back to reality….
“NO BITCHASSNESS!”
My friend asked, “What is going on, was it a full moon recently or something?” I didn’t know what was going on but I had to find out. I called a friend and she quickly said, “Umm yeah duh, Spring Fever”
“Spring Whutta?”
So she explained it to me…and well I wasn’t satisfied so I Googled it.
YES…It made sense!
Have you stopped to look around you?? Have you noticed that people are coming out of the woodwork like you wouldn’t believe???
Even you too, maybe have sent a drunken text message, emailed or called someone that you haven’t spoken to in a while?
Ladies, A “Hey beautiful, how are you?” Oh yeah, and they usually end it with “it’s been a while” SOUND FAMILIAR?
I’m telling you, All of a sudden…they come sniffin’ around like I’m an open can of Puppy Chow!
IT’S THIS WEATHER!
Check this out! This article actually explains Spring Fever….we all go through it to a certain degree….you might notice that your dating calendar is a little busier than usual right now…
Now some of you may think it’s a myth…but I for one believe it…
http://www.askmen.com/dating/curtsmith_200/210_dating_advice.html
You can attribute it to whatever you’d like, warmer weather means people get out more, the smell of blossoming flowers makes you feel romantic, either way it’s affecting us. Is it just the weather or is it more instinct though? Kind of like “mating season” where even if we never stepped outside when the warm weather set in, would we still feel the pull to go out and find a mate?
Well folks, bottom line, it smells like love is in the air or so people think, and do with it what you will but just remember….NO BITCHASSNESS for fucks sake!
And watch as it starts to get cold again…see how many people have their “person” and go into hibernation lol!
Have you noticed a difference in behavior in men around you?
Gentlemen, how about the ladies around you???
Take a second and think? Maybe not to date them again but possibly just reconnect? I have looked back and there have been a few small reconnections with my past, innocent and brief but still…
Wow, think about it…deep down, we really are just animals huh?